Losing a loved often throws us into a world where nothing feels normal. Couple that loss of normalcy with the cognitive effects of grief and loss (brain fog, disorientation, confusion) and completing even the simplest tasks can be daunting.
Imagine the stress families must feel when completing end-of-life tasks that are unfamiliar to them. Outside of the ceremonial rituals like a viewing or wake, funeral or memorial service, and the cremation and burial, you will need to decide how you want to mark the final resting place of your loved one. A memorial is one of the more significant purchases you will make during this process, and it’s one that you should never feel pressured or rushed to complete.
At Milano Monuments, our team of memorialization experts want to ease your burden as much as possible. We understand the significance of designing and selecting a headstone that will honor your loved one for generations and we encourage you to take as much time as you need. On average, many families wait between three to 12 months before taking the steps of creating a memorial.
While you are contemplating your options, here are some questions to think about:
A memorial is a big purchase. As with any significant purchase, you need time to research and plan to ensure you get exactly what you want. While some tasks associated with end of life need to be handled immediately (arrangements for the loved one, filing a death certificate, etc.), designing and purchasing a memorial can be postponed for as long as you need. Below is a general list of tasks to consider when the time is right:
When you’re ready, the process of memorialization can help you focus on happy memories and the things you loved most about the person. Customizing a headstone lets you think about the positive and unique life experiences you shared with your loved one.
Whether you’re preplanning your own memorial or are in the midst of planning a memorial for someone else, the Milano Monuments team is here to help. Contact one of our memorial specialists who will be happy to assist you through the process when the time is right for you.